This Wasn't in the Brochure
Co-Parenting ADHD, Autism, PDA & ODD
A practical, evidence-based guide for navigating the uncharted waters of co-parenting neurodivergent children—even when you and your co-parent don't agree.
Sound Familiar?
"My ex thinks I'm making excuses. They say if I just disciplined harder, the meltdowns would stop."
"We can't agree on medication, therapy, or even whether there's a problem at all."
"The handoffs are a disaster. My kid falls apart every single time."
"I feel like I'm the only one who really sees what's going on with my child."
A Compass for Uncharted Waters
This book gives you practical strategies that work—even when you're parenting solo or navigating high-conflict co-parenting.
Evidence-Based
Every strategy grounded in peer-reviewed research on ADHD, autism, PDA, and ODD—translated into plain language.
High-Conflict Ready
Every chapter includes "If Co-Parents Disagree" variations for when parallel parenting is your only option.
Immediately Actionable
Survival cards, scripts, and step-by-step protocols you can use tonight—not next month.
What's Inside
Understanding the Waters
ADHD, Autism, PDA, and ODD explained for co-parents
Two Captains, One Ship
Building your co-parenting team
The Morning Passage
Routines and rituals for a smooth start
Stormy Seas
Meltdowns, tantrums, and emotional dysregulation
Bridging Two Worlds
Transitions between homes
School and Beyond
Charting a course in the outside world
The Wider Village
Family, friends, and finding support
The Caring Compass
Self-care for co-parents
Free Toolkit
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